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This woman’s obituary is scathing—and Twitter is here for it

That got dark fast!


Stacey Ritzen

Internet Culture

Posted on Jun 6, 2018   Updated on May 21, 2021, 2:11 pm CDT

Every now and then an obituary goes viral, usually because it highlights that the person being honored was funny, odd, or extraordinary—or, most commonly, a combination of the three—when they were among the living.

This is not one of those obituaries.

Kathleen Dehmlow who died last week at age 80 in Springfield, Minnesota, was remembered in a brief, scathing obit presumably written by her children for the Redwood Falls Gazette. First noticed by @RandBallsStu on Twitter, Ms. Dehmlow’s obituary starts out innocently enough, before taking a turn for the “OH HELL NO.”

After detailing some relatively mundane facts about when Dehmlow was born, it goes on to paint a salacious scandal of Dehmlow getting married and having two children, Gina and Jay, before getting pregnant by her brother-in-law and then running off to California and abandoning her family. It goes on to say that Gina and Jay were then raised by Dehmlow’s parents.

“She will not be missed by Gina and Jay, and they understand that this world is a better place without her,” it concludes at the end, kicking the woman while she is dead.

The Gazette removed the online listing this week when the obit went viral, and the general manager for the paper would only say that the family paid for it, and subsequent attempts to contact Gina and Jay were unsuccessful.

But so many questions remain! How did Kathleen end up back in Minnesota? What became of the love child she ran off with? The obit quickly became the subject of speculation and amusement on Twitter.


But wait, the plot thickens!

We may never know the real story, but this isn’t the first instance of an adult child leaving a parent an unflattering obituary. In 2013, a woman named Katherine Reddick went viral for penning the obituary for her abusive mother, describing how she and her siblings were routinely subject to cruelty and neglect.

If there’s one thing we can all take away from this:

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*First Published: Jun 6, 2018, 11:30 am CDT