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How ‘you hate to see it’ became a meme to express disappointment

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Stacey Ritzen

Internet Culture

Posted on Jun 7, 2019   Updated on May 20, 2021, 11:03 am CDT

The power of the internet allows us to express our feelings and reactions in a creative and rapidly-evolving myriad of ways. Want to thirst on a celebrity? Tweet them to top you. Unsure how to express excitement? Yeet it up. Want to offer some unsolicited advice? You don’t know who needs to hear this. (But someone probably does!) Hate to see something unfortunate or regrettable unfold? Well, you hate to see it.

“You hate to see it” is one of those rare memes that, at face value, may sound more complicated than it is. The origin is unclear—other than it likely surfaced on Black Twitter, where all the good memes originate—but the earliest known record comes from a February 11, 2018 Urban Dictionary entry.

It’s defined as an “all-encompassing phrase consisting of anything you dislike to observe,” with the following example:

“Hey Nikita, did you clean the bathroom?”

“Nah B”

“Damn, you hate to see it”

Likewise, another entry from just a few weeks ago, on May 16, 2019, describes it simply as: “When an unfortunate event occurs.”

A perfect example of the meme surfaced earlier this week when Complex tweeted out a story about Ciara dishing on her decision to split with Future, who, she was previously engaged to until the couple ended their relationship in August of 2014. (She has since married Seattle Seahawks quarterback Russell Wilson.)

After five years, however, some people pointed out that Ciara should have moved on by now, and a few of the tweets went viral:

But beyond famous exes throwing shade, the meme extremely versatile and can be used in just about any scenario, as you can see in a handful of examples below.

“You hate to see it,” unsurprisingly, also appeared in reactions to  divisive final season.

The phrase has also been popularized on Reddit, where it can be found used as the setup for countless memes (and more Thrones ones, of course):

You hate to see it
byu/AydanOfHouseCock infreefolk

You hate to see it
byu/Nolegdaylarry inpublix

You hate to see it..
byu/Robbi1098 indankmemes

You hate to see it
byu/TryhardTim inUrinatingTree

Oddly enough, the Michael Scott juxtaposition seems very fitting in this context. Had The Office aired during the peak Extremely Online era, the former Dunder Mifflin regional manager himself alone would have launched a thousand variations of the “you hate to see it” meme. I mean, my god, the “Dinner Party” episode alone! Such quaint times we were living in.


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*First Published: Jun 7, 2019, 11:47 am CDT