A wife sparked a conversation over boundaries after she tracked her husband’s location to Hooters while he was away on a work trip.
Tazmin Bullard (@tazminbullard) posted the short clip after recognizing the tell-tale orange roof in the Find My app. Her video, which amassed over 2.2 million views as of Tuesday afternoon, however, divided users over whether Bullard’s husband was in the wrong.
“POV: you check your husband’s location while he’s on a work trip,” Bullard wrote via text overlay.
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Bullard then zoomed in on her husband’s location in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Upon seeing the signature orange roof, Bullard exited the app and went into Apple Maps, confirming that he was at Hooters.
“Heard they have good wings,” Bullard quipped in the accompanying video caption.
In the comments, many women said they believed that Bullard’s husband had crossed a line.
“If he didn’t tell you I feel like that’s low key a red flag,” one viewer said.
“I gotta be honest I’d be mad,” another agreed.
“Same thing happened to me with Twin Peaks,” a third user shared. “He said it was ‘for a beer with his friend.’ I apple paid him $20 and said go to the liquor store, ON ME.”
Others, meanwhile, were surprised by the overwhelmingly angry reaction.
“The only way I’d be pissy is if he came home without curly fries and ranch for me,” one viewer joked.
“I literally would only care that he went without me. Bring me a box boo,” another echoed.
“I wouldn’t be mad because I know my husband and know he would never pick Hooters,” a third spouse shared.
Communication in relationships is the most important ingredient to maintaining a strong bond with your partner. And boundaries are one of the best ways to set a good foundation. Boundaries are clear guidelines used to establish communication and correct behavior in a relationship. Though the idea of boundaries can be off-putting, they are essential and can foster a deeper bond.
Healthy boundaries set expectations, ensure physical and emotional comfort, and clarify individual responsibilities in a relationship. Without boundaries, relationships can quickly grow toxic.
The Daily Dot has reached out to Bullard via TikTok comment and to Hooters by email for further information.