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5 of the best free sites to have a fling online in 2019

Tinder is trouble–try one of these top fling sites instead.


Marisa Losciale


Posted on Oct 22, 2018   Updated on Jan 27, 2021, 3:52 pm CST

Dating apps and online hookup sites have effectively changed how we meet people, so using a dedicated fling site to find adult fun sounds like something out of the Flintstones. But you know that saying “don’t fix it if it ain’t broke?” Well, it applies here too.

Fred and Barney may not have had access to free online fling sites, but luckily, you do. So quit wandering around in bars and trying to figure out how to slide into DMs. Switch gears and check out five of the top fling sites you could use to find someone to jumpstart your engine *wink*.


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The best fling site for instant gratification

1) SoNaughty

When you know exactly what you want, the prospective lovers you meet can take that as you being “intense”–and I totally don’t speak from experience or anything. But unlike the lame people you scare off IRL, SoNaughty subscribers are just as straightforward as you are. The site actually wants you to “express your sexual desires without any fear of judgment or embarrassment, meet open-minded and sexually adventurous peers, and find the absolute hottest sex of your life.”

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2) GetItOn

Remember when Craigslist Personals were bangin’? Well, GetItOn is your closest dupe. The site makes finding exactly what you want as easy as filling out a personal ad. So you (and every other member) will offer up the juicy details regarding your fantasy sex life before browsing through potential matches. This way you waste less time on profiles and more time doing what you came here for.

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3) InstantHookups

If you can’t be bothered to fill out lengthy applications, InstantHookups is for you. All you have to do is check the filter boxes and specify what you want–tall or short, thin or thick, toned or curvy, blond, brunette, redhead, green-eyed, blue-eyed, long-haired, short-haired… the list goes on. And since the site takes advantage of GPS-based AutoMatch, your potential matches are just a few clicks away.

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4) Xpress

Travel internationally, do ya? Fling site Xpress will help you find adult fun in the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom. The online fling site also offers resources like advice columns and online communities to all subscribers.

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5) AdultFriendFinder

AdultFriendFinder (or AFF) is probably the top fling site across all borders. And that’s because it not only hosts the world’s largest online sex and swinger community, but it’s also gay-friendly and offers subscribers access to thousands of articles and member blogs devoted to sex, dating, and more. So if you’re looking for more than just a fling, but maybe some other kinksters to discuss your practices with, this site is for you.

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*First Published: Oct 22, 2018, 2:37 pm CDT