TV writer perfectly shuts down fan’s misogynistic ‘friend zone’ theory

Beast Boy from the animated series Teen Titans may have the ability to turn into a literal animal, but he’s far from the kind of monster who’d believe in the misogynistic “friend zone” theory. Just look at his own writer’s response to such a gross belief.

On Monday, TV writer and producer David Slack, who has worked on Teen TitansJackie Chan Adventures, and MacGyver, shut down one fan’s friend zone assertion, showing that TV has a much broader cultural implication than pure enjoyment.

The tweet, posted in November, depicted four screenshots of pairs of friends from Cartoon Network shows Code Lyoko and Teen Titans, Disney Channel’s Kim Possible, and Nickelodeon’s Jimmy Neutron. All four cartoon stills showed one male and female character, supposedly depicting the “unrequited love” that the male ‘toons didn’t receive from their female counterparts.

“These dudes were the definition of being in the friend zone,” the account, an apparent Naruto fandom meme page, wrote.

The tweet plays on the outdated, consistently refuted notion that people, usually women, somehow owe their friends, usually men, romantic or physical intimacy for the time and energy invested into the friendship. The “friend zone” also implies some sort of entrapment executed by women, as well as resentment held by the men “stuck” in such a zone and unable to express their feelings without being rejected.

In other words, the friend zone is a total myth implying that women are to be valued for what they can offer men, instead of for who they are as people. Which is exactly what Slack, the former head writer for Teen Titans, took issue with when he stepped in and shut that idea right the hell down.

“I hope you someday learn what Beast Boy already knew: that women are actually people,” Slack replied. “They’re not games to be won. They have their own minds & hearts, & they don’t owe you a relationship just because you’re attracted to them.”

While an engaging tweeter tried to prove Slack wrong by insisting that acknowledging a “friend zone” isn’t inherently misogynistic, Slack broke his explanation down further.

Yes, again, the friend zone is a nonexistent space that only reinforces negative ideas about women. Perhaps we could get a head start on shutting down this toxic thinking by getting other children’s cartoons to jump on board from the first episode? Just a thought.

H/T Mashable

Samantha Grasso

Samantha Grasso

Samantha Grasso is a former IRL staff writer for the Daily Dot with a reporting emphasis on immigration. Her work has appeared on Los Angeles Magazine, Death And Taxes, Revelist, Texts From Last Night, Austin Monthly, and she has previously contributed to Texas Monthly.