#RIPReese: Man bullied for relationship with trans woman dies by suicide

A Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, man who was once bullied on camera for being in a relationship with a trans woman has committed suicide, and reports say the bullying played a role in his mental health struggles.

The man, identified as 20-year-old Maurice Willoughby by the Advocate, was also known as “Reese Him Daddie.”

While it’s not clear how long before his death the video was taken, Willoughby shared the video on his Facebook in February and then again in June. The clip shows numerous people recording on their own phone cameras as they antagonize Willoughby, who defends himself. 

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“You fuck what?” asks the person shooting the video.

“I fuck tranny so what,” Willoughby says.

“That’s not thorough,” the person behind the camera says. “You sucking dick ‘n’ all that… that’s not thorough.”

A source close to Willoughby told Aazios.com said he often faced a lot of harassment. 

“He was getting picked on and joked on all the time,” a friend reportedly told the online publication on condition of anonymity. “Where we are from, if you like trans woman, and you black, the streets will talk about you, fight you, even try to kill you.  He was dealing with a lot.”

On his Facebook account, Willoughby often wrote about his mental health struggles and his loving relationship with his trans partner, Faith Palmer.

He also had “Faith” tattooed on the left side of his forehead, according to his photos on social media. 

On Tuesday, Palmer shared a loving tribute to Willoughby. “All he wanted was for us to win as we battled all his mental demons but I got left being the only one tryin to get help cause he gave up hope as my friends and family and his grandma tried to help and keep me alive while I tried to save him before this point,” Palmer wrote. (Palmer did not immediately respond to the Daily Dot’s request for comment.)

Activist and journalist Ashlee Marie Preston shared the video on Twitter and commented on the dangers people face in dating trans people. 

“When a man is confident & secure enough to openly love a trans woman; this is the bullying and harassment he gets,” Preston wrote in the tweet. “When trans attracted men kill us; it’s out of fear that this will happen to them if they are outed. Reese didn’t kill his girlfriend; he killed himself instead.”

People responded to express their anger over the bullying and transphobia, honoring Willoughby with the hashtag #RIPReese.

Many pointed to the high rates of violence against trans women, especially Black trans women. Within the first seven months of the year, 12 Black trans women have been murdered, raising alarms among advocates and politicians. 

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Commenters also called for #BlackLivesMatter to include queer and trans people. 

“Black lives matter means ALL black lives,” Twitter user @_mhasina wrote. “Queer lives, trans lives, disabled lives, ALL black lives matter.”

For more information about suicide prevention or to speak with someone confidentially, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.) or Samaritans (U.K.).

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Samira Sadeque

Samira Sadeque

Samira Sadeque is a New York-based journalist reporting on immigration, sexual violence, and mental health, and will sometimes write about memes and dinosaurs too. Her work also appears in Reuters, NPR, and NBC among other publications. She graduated from Columbia Journalism School, and her work has been nominated for SAJA awards. Follow: @Samideque