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Harris O'Malley


Harris O’Malley is a dating coach who provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, the Dr. NerdLove podcast, and the Good Men Project.

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What the Oregon shooter’s manifesto tells us about the dangers of toxic masculinity

What does it mean to be a 'real man?'

On Oct 7, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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The campaign against sex robots is missing the point

We're missing the digital forest for the silicon trees.

On Sep 21, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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Nobody should be rooting for Kermit and Miss Piggy to get back together

Miss Piggy is a feminist icon—but she's also a domestic abuser.

On Sep 3, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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In defense of the Fleshlight—why there’s nothing wrong with sex toys for men

Why are men are still afraid to use sex toys to help them get off?

On Sep 2, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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The Ashley Madison hack is bad news for cheaters—and just as terrible for everyone else

Monogamy—as we currently practice it—doesn't seem to work the way we think it should.

On Aug 20, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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5 rules for sharing your unpopular opinion on Facebook (without being a jerk)

The problem isn’t what you have to say but how you’re saying it.

On Jun 4, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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3 ways to reform toxic masculinity after Gamergate

Men need to push back against the insulting definitions of what it means to be male.

On Apr 10, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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The one scene in ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ the Internet isn’t talking about

It's even worse than you think.

On Feb 18, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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Men can’t all look like Brad Pitt in ‘Fight Club’—but we’re willing to die trying

Men have their own unattainable myths to live up to.

On Jan 27, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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Sorry, nerds—you aren’t as oppressed as you think

Geeks aren't the underdogs anymore.

On Jan 14, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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What’s really wrong with ‘nice guys’

Blaming women for your dating failures won't solve your problems.

On Jan 6, 2015 by Harris O'Malley

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Our porn obsession is hurting our sex lives

It's time to take a good hard look at porn.

On Dec 20, 2014 by Harris O'Malley

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Why men are afraid of being invisible

Commenters on the Hollaback harassment video aren't entirely wrong when they say that men are just asking for validation.

On Dec 8, 2014 by Harris O'Malley