Man arrested for posting a Craigslist Missed Connection to have sex with a horse

Arizona sheriff wants people to stop horsing around on Craigslist.


Kate Knibbs


Published Apr 25, 2014   Updated May 31, 2021, 10:16 am CDT

Craigslist’s Missed Connections section is filled with paeans to that pretty woman in a coffee shop or on the train, or tall bearded men who left without saying goodbye. Sometimes they can be elaborate and beautiful… other times, not so much.

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They also usually don’t result in arrests, but then again, they usually don’t involve trying to have sex with a horse.

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According to detectives, Donald Waelde posted to the Phoenix Missed Connections section in early April, writing:

“I want to play with a horse. Simple as that. If you have a horse and I can have access to it… I will do something in return.”

Photo via Maricopa County Sheriff’s Office

While the language wasn’t explicitly sexual, another Craigslist user suspected something was amiss and contacted the police, who went undercover and brought along a police horse as a prop. Waelde was taken into custody after reportedly admitting to putting the ad up with intent to have sex with a horse. Waelde is charged with conspiracy to commit bestiality.

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Sheriff Joe Ariapo said in a statement that this is the fourth case since 2011 where suspects used Craigslist to find animals. In 2011, Ariapo asked Craigslist CEO Jim Buckmaster to step up monitoring the site for bestiality posts, saying the site facilitates bestiality.

Bestiality has been a crime in Arizona since 2006, but it’s not illegal everywhere in the U.S. Bestiality remains legal in Ohio, Texas, Vermont, Kentucky, Virginia, West Virginia, Nevada, New Jersey, New Hampshire, New Mexico, Montana, Wyoming, Hawaii, and the District of Columbia. So in those states, penning a Missed Connection for a horse (or a dog, or sheep, or monkey) will likely raise eyebrows, but it won’t get you arrested.

H/T | Photo via Flickr/The_Gut (CC BY 2.0)

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*First Published: Apr 25, 2014, 11:48 am CDT