Your first anal sex experience can open up a (w)hole new world of pleasurable sensation. If you’re new to the world of anal sex porn, you might think that it’s just for gay men. But butt sex is pleasurable for a lot of different bodies! According to PornHub insights, both men and women search for anal porn equally. Anal sex can stimulate many of the hidden, happy little nerve endings throughout the internal clitoral system. For others, anal stimulation is also the only way to experience prostate stimulation. As the taboo of anal sex is dissipates, heterosexual couples are trying all manner of bootylicious pastimes! Rimming, pegging, and even the expert-level fisting are becoming more mainstream in porn and in bedrooms. Representations of anal sex via pop culture and anal sex videos can give vewiers some unrealistic perceptions of ass play.
What to expect from your first anal experience
Not knowing how to have anal sex properly can have a lasting, detrimental impact on our sexual psychology. Personally and socially, we attach a lot of significance to our sexual “firsts”. The topic of anal sex still carries stigma––from hygienic concerns to sex and gender power dynamics. Before butt stuff, take time to discuss these things with your partner. Communicate your expectations and boundaries before, during, and after first time anal play.
Before you start, it’s important to have a tube of anal lube on hand. Silicone lube is great for marathon anal play, sometimes staying slippery until you wash it off. Water-based lube absorbs into the skin, requiring less cleanup but more reapplication. A silicone hybrid will absorb into your skin after a while and provides more slip than your standard water-based lube. Whichever you choose, avoid anal lubes with desensitizers in them; feelings and sensation are the best indicators of what feels good and when to slow it down.
Butt stuff requires a little more maintenance than your traditional penis-in-vagina sex. A little back-yard cleanup before play is necessary. For one, it clears the way for pleasant mouth stuff (no, a clean asshole shouldn’t taste bad). It also helps mitigate risk of uncomfortable infections if one or both partners involved has a vagina. Level up your anal play game with the use of medical gloves and condoms. They’ll provide peace of mind with regard to both cleanliness and risk of STIs.
Even the best-laid first time anal plans can potentially get messy, so keep that in mind. The body does funny things, but good butt-stuff isn’t about shame (outside of the context of BDSM, of course.) Remember, the more you know about sexuality and bodies, the more prepared you’ll be if something uncomfortable occurs. For the best anal sex deep dive, read Tristan Taormino’s book The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex. She really gets into the bread-and-butter of butt stuff!
Anal porn pros: what you need to know
Wondering how to reenact those hardcore scenes you’ve seen in your favorite anal video? Hang on just a second. Your average porn site features a lot more pounding than the average person’s bum might be able to handle. Image-wise, there’s wrong with your butthole not being as shiny, bleached, and hairless as the puckers in porn. Grooming is a personal choice based on what feels comfortable for you. Physically, your little starfish may not be able to take an athletic-style dicking down (even after training!) Listening to your body is key to understanding your limitations. In anal porn, there’s also unseen pre and post production efforts made by these anal HD superstars. Performers are fasting, doing enemas, internally pre-lubing, and cleaning up messes behind the scenes.
Just because you don’t see stars prepping doesn’t mean you should. Day-of dietary mindfulness, enemas, and playing with yourself can ensure satisfying, safe anal sex. So can having realistic expectations. You may have seen porn trends like gaping (stretching the anus enough to look inside). Gaping is an advanced move, and shouldn’t be tried by a beginner. Rosebudding, another hardcore anal porn trend, is actually rectal prolapse. This trend is extremely dangerous, and occupies an ethically sketchy spot in the world of porn production. Unless your kink is expensive rectal surgery, we don’t recommend it.
Where to watch anal porn
Tushy
Vixen media’s anal porn video site caters its scenery especially to fold you into a fantasy. Featuring 4K scenes in exotic locations and dreamy, escapist narratives, it’s about getting away while getting off. The site updates every five days, offers downloads, and is quick and easy to navigate, including the booty-centric category section. Categories like “anal fingering” and “rimming” are refreshing to see in accessible quantity, but where’s the pegging porn? Meanwhile, categories like “gaping” and “first anal” are more entertainment porn as opposed to a real anal sex video. Keep that caveat in mind if you’re in the market for authentic anal.
Other backdoor provisos include a severe lack of body and gender diversity. While Tushy doesn’t have identity-based categories, the Vixen family includes Blacked, a site that capitalizes on fetishizing Black performers. It’s important to listen to Black voices in the adult industry as they advocate for equal treatment, pay, and representation. If Tushy is your brand of butt-stuff, check out the performers who are holding their sister site accountable.
AdultTime
Adult Time is well on its way to becoming a household name in streaming as “the Netflix of porn”. The site partners with major studios and puts their films into an easy-to-navigate interface. You can search for smut by category, performer, or studio. There are also some incredible original films and some binge-worthy series.
Adult Time’s diversity in studio partnerships also means more diversity in bodies and identities. The same is true in its presentations of anal sex. Not so into the highly performative anal sex scenes you see in most anal videos? Looking for authenticity but needing a higher quality than amateur? Adult Time offers multiple options for a happy medium. Studios like Burning Angel, Vivid, and Girlsway offer quality anal sex content––and with an Adult Time subscription, they’re all yours.
Lust Cinema
Erika Lust has created an empire of high-quality sex films that are uniquely cinematic and inclusive. In addition to directing her own films, she collects works by other directors with a similar artistic vision. Lust clearly puts a strong emphasis on authentically pleasurable sex. This anal sex should be watched in a theater. She also casts superstar performers diverse bodies, genders, ages, and racial identities. Cruising her catalogue, you’ll see renowned stars and creators like Natalie Mars, Mickey Mod, Casey Calvert, and so many more.
Lust’s film network includes three different sites. Lust Cinema collects original films and series along with content by studios like JoyBear, Adam & Eve, and Wicked Pictures. Else Cinema specializes in softcore porn, emphasizing softer, more sensual narratives. Original series XConfessions features short films inspired by confessions submitted anonymously by viewers.
Membership costs to each site vary, but Lust Cinema costs more. A Lust Cinema login grants you access to Else Cinema, and you can add an XConfessions membership for $2.95/mo. If you’re not exclusively into secret smut or soft-core, the Lust Cinema bundle is a steal.
Kink.com
What, did you think all of these anal videos were gonna be strictly vanilla? Think again, butt-lovers! This site will add a whole new veneer to your new hole visions. Kink’s interface is a plain but effective, featuring a range of subversive sex acts easily browsable by category. Do you like your anal sex porn with a little edging, bondage, or electro-shock fun? Wanna see your favorite porn stars getting kinky? You’re bound to find their butt-stuff on Kink.com.
In order for anal sex and kink to be successful, performers rely on communication and planning. Please kids, don’t try this at home without talking to your partner(s) and doing the proper research! Now get your hiney over to Kink.com quickly––or you might get a spanking.
Pornhub Premium
Look, I hate recommending free porn sites, so I’m all for finding Pornhub alternatives. Free sites often post pirated content, meaning the stars and production crew don’t get paid for their work. This tube site has a very un-sexy reputation for shifting the responsibility of regulating content onto creators. Still, Pornhub is the most well-known adult entertainment site. It’s still a beneficial place for amateur sex stars to post their own work and make a name for themselves. Watching content made by verified users and subscribing to premium provides models with a higher payout-per-view rate.
Premium or not, finding anal sex videos that suit you may take some time. The site has a laissez-faire attitude toward unethical content, and it doesn’t monitor the language surrounding women and marginalized communities. Consider this a trigger warning for just about everything. Random video titles can be cringeworthy or occasionally violent. PornHub Premium is a thrift store for porn; you have to sift through a lot of junk if you want to find a gem.
Holed
The anal porn videos at Holed are about as subtle as the site’s name suggests. Its plot lines are abrupt, like coming home to find someone diddling themselves in your living room. In fact, that might be a real film plot. Scenes feature minimal cuts and maximum butthole-view.
The site is easy to navigate but glitchy, and the ad content through the Holed site is loud and uncomfortable. Be careful what you click. We’d hate to send you down a hole you didn’t intend to go down. Once you get your bearings, the category menu offers standard porn genre tags, but no real anal sex specialities. Holed also falls into the “only one kind of booty/body” camp, featuring your typical thin figures and shaved backdoors. Still, with megastar power, 4K streaming, and download options at Holed, the site may be a hole-in-one for you.
Brazzers
The gonzo stylings at Brazzers are an archetypical snapshot of an anal sex video in mainstream porn. Its use of comical porn tropes and flimsy plot lines mean it’s more adult entertainment than IRL sex. The performers have similar body styles, and the assholes are all bleached and hairless. HD-quality, content quantity, and a-list b-holes are Brazzers’ strengths. Both the site and its films are clean and polished. Navigating the site and accessing free downloads is straightforward. It’s your destination for anal porn if you’re looking for star power, meta jokes, and sexual sacrifice of realism.
Team Skeet
The only thing more complicated than Team Skeet’s click-hole “enter” page is the site’s attitude toward consent in their anal sex videos. Most of the videos seem to hinge on taboo as the norm, giving the site an overall exploitative feel. It features a large library and a lot of favorite performers, but Team Skeet is a whole lot of head-pushing, murky-consenting, male-gaze pandering noise.
As for category searches, most revolve around physical characteristics. The site uses many race-based categories. While the site has a category for anal sex porn and even “pussy type”, the films don’t feature a lot of female pleasure. If you’re looking for anal porn with a back door entrance into Pussy-Pleasure Town, you had best keep on driving. A majority of mainstream anal porn is entertainment, not instructive, so if you choose Team Skeet, be careful what you internalize.
Naughty America
Whatever shiny, new technology has the online porn community aquiver today, Naughty America has a pinkie in it. The site wants you up-close and personal with its big-name star performers.
While Naughty America’s production tech may be cutting edge, its attitude toward body, gender, and racial diversity is behind the times. As you peruse the anal porn content, expect the nice, slim cis-lady to play the bottom, and prepare for some 0-60 MPH butt-sex olympics and problematic category tags. Still, with downloads, 4K standard, VR porn, daily additions of content, a-list adult stars, and original series like Ass Masterpiece, this site’s caricature of anal sex videos might be your cup of tea.
ManyVids
MV puts your hands in all of the cookie jars with access to videos, photosets, live cams, phone chats, panties for sale, and other options to support performers. Bella French, CEO of ManyVids, co-created a platform on which sex workers could have more control and ownership of their content. The result? You’re free to browse the site knowing you’re directly supporting real sex workers.
ManyVids hosts user-submitted content, so performers range in diversity. MV stars post videos that strike a beautiful balance between professional skill and homemade sex reality. This clip site is also much easier to navigate than other porn sites hosting user-submitted videos.
PinkLabel.tv
PinkLabel.tv offers a medley of pornographic content organized like Netflix, but pinker. Viewers can browse progressively sexy genres like “BIPOC Porn” and “The feminist porn gaze”. Variations in content, genders, and bodies on PinkLabelTV are representative and empowering. These are real-ass people having real-ass sex, and that includes real representations of ass sex! Check out categories like “boygasm” and “trans and nonbinary sex” for elevated anal porn.
The site also includes educational and vintage porn, representations of BDSM and kink, and critically acclaimed series like Crashpad Series, which revolves around a secret apartment in San Francisco (the Crashpad) where sexy queer folx go to get it on with each other. Videos have a curator’s note informing viewers that films are selected to “expand our notions of adult film.” Every film on the site has an idiosyncratic charm, like you’re watching porn in an art garage.
To properly savor your love of ass-play, try watching some live anal cams, too. Cams are a great way to reconcile your performance fetish with your real expectations, and interact with performers. In the meantime, when you watch awe-inspiring anal video queens like Asa Akira and Cherie DeVille perform acrobatic anal moves, don’t be intimidated. These ladies are essentially professional athletes of butt-stuff. The key is to listen to your body and do was feels pleasurable. This, and a whole lot of lube, makes for a happy, healthy butthole.