This article contains sexually explicit material.
Guys love talking about masturbating. Jerking off, jacking off, whacking off, polishing the rocket, choking the bishop, flogging the dolphin: dudes have no shortage of terms to use to describe the act of self-pleasure. But when it comes to ladies talking about having their own me-time, we’re left with few options. (“Flicking the bean?” “Scratching the record“? Ugh, no thank you.)
So what’s the solution? Can we ladies come together, as a gender, to pick a term for female masturbation that we can all agree on? Refinery 29 got a bunch of ladies together to sort out this age-old question once and for all.
This conversation isn’t over.