A selection of the best sex toys for him and her.

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Start building your collection with our list of the best sex toys for him and her

Prepare to enter a whole new realm of pleasure!

 

Beck Diaz

Dot Recs

Published Nov 4, 2021

All couples are different. Some can stay content acting out the same bedroom routine over and over. Some struggle to find intimacy, and others explore freely and happily. No matter which group you may fall into, everyone needs a little help sometimes. In those moments, you might consider sex toys for him and her. 

The best sex toys for him and her aren’t hard to come by if you know where to look. If you want dual pleasure that doesn’t feel like an intrusion or an extra limb, we’ve got the toys for you. Here are the best sex toys for him and her. 

What are couples sex toys?

Couples sex toys are sex toys used, and designed, for couples. Pretty self explanatory, we know. However, while the concept of a couples sex toy isn’t hard to understand, finding the perfect one to fit your needs can be somewhat exhausting. 

Before you set out on your search for the perfect toy to introduce to your partner, you should first decide on what experience you’re after. Set your intention for your shopping experience, and approach the list with realistic expectations. No toy can give you everything you’re looking for, but rest assured that there will be a few that come close. 

What kind of couples sex toys can I buy? 

This may come as a shock to you, but couples sex toys are anything but linear. While the clitoral vibrator is a celebrated sex toy, and for good reason, it is not the end-all-be-all to couples play. Vibrating toys, such as prostate massagers, vibrating cock rings, vibrating butt plugs, and so many more are important variations of the category. 

Toys like anal beads, clitoral stimulators, dual massagers, and so much more have the power to stimulate both parties without vibrations. Before you make your decision, it’s important to decide what you’re both comfortable with, and what your price range looks like. Once you have those clearly defined, you’ll have the best chance at purchasing a toy that will pleasure you both to no end. 

It’s also important to keep in mind that a toy doesn’t have to bring you both pleasure at the same time to be pleasurable for you both. This is a chance to explore ways to make your partner find untold bliss. 

Think about what turns you on, and share it with your partner when you’re shopping. Oftentimes it’s just as hot to be using a toy on your partner as it is to have one used on you.

The best sex toys for him and her

Cock Rings 

Three Lelo Tor 2 cock rings in three different colors
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1) The best cock ring sex toy for him and her: Lelo Tor 2

The Lelo brand is one of excellence. With every purchase, you can always expect to add a toy to the collection that will bring you and your partner pleasure. The Tor 2 is no exception, and it delivers dual pleasure with precision. 

Named as one of the most sophisticated vibrating cock rings on the market, the Tor 2 offers intense vibrations and thrilling sensations. This is a perfectly fitting ring that sits at the base of the shaft. As the Tor 2 grips tightly at the shaft, the blood vessels constrict causing the blood to leave more slowly. 

With the Lelo Tor 2 you’ll be able to keep your erection longer, while the device’s vibrations keep your partner’s pleasure at an all-time high. The Tor 2 features six vibration settings, and is waterproof up to one meter. 

Price: $129.96

Set of three stainless steel cock rings in three different sizes
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2) The best cock ring for a snug fit: Master Series Trine Collection

This cock ring trio is the best way to get the tightest fit. Made from stainless steel, these cock rings have absolutely no give. Because of this, the Master Series makes sure to set you up with three different sizes for the safest, tightest fit possible. 

Price: $11.19

Finger Vibrators

Mint green finger vibrator from Dame for best sex toys for him and her
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1) The best finger vibrator: Dame Products Fin

This finger vibe is perfect for the partner who wants to take the reins on providing pinpointed pleasure. Dame Products has created the ultimate mini vibrator that seems to be up for anything. 

Its size allows for easy transportation and transference between partners. Designed for users with a ring size from five to thirteen in mind, this device will fit most as it nestles in between your fingers. One side feels flat and squishy to the touch, while the other side is firm for the best possible direct stimulation. 

With three intensities, an optional tether strap for easy use, and a 100% waterproof feature, the Fin from Dame Products will be your favorite tiny friend. 

Price: $139.00

hot pink finger vibrator
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2) The best finger massager at an affordable price: Better Love Ruby Finger Vibe

A powerful vibrator that slips comfortably over your finger for security and precision? Sign me up. The Better Love Ruby Finger Vibe pairs strength with affordability. This low-ticket item doesn’t have many of the bells and whistles you might find on higher-priced items. There aren’t different vibration settings to choose from, it’s not rechargeable, and it’s not waterproof. 

So why should you buy it? Because it gets the job done regardless! Get ready for powerful vibrations at a price that won’t break the bank. 

Price: $38.79

Best Vibrator for Couples

black and gold lelo hugo prostate massager, one of the best sex toys for him and her
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1) The best couples vibrator: Lelo Ida

Sharing the bedroom experience has never been better. The Lelo Ida is created for adventurous couples looking to introduce something new into their sex routines. If you or your partner has ever wondered what it might be like with a third party thrown in the mix, this is the toy for you. 

The Ida features a slender silicone arm that can sit comfortably inside during your lovemaking session. It’s head holds a strong motor that sends intense vibrations to the clit, while the vibrating arm hits the G-spot and stimulates your partner’s length. 

With a remote control for hands-free exploration, a rechargeable battery, eight vibration settings, and a waterproof guarantee, this is what makes the Ida one of the best sex toys for him and her. 


Price: $179.00

all white dame products clitoral massager
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2) The best tiny couples vibrator that packs a punch: Dame Products Eva II

Dame Products has delivered a beautiful couples vibrator that is oh so easy to use. Don’t let the size of the device confuse you, the Eva II has everything it needs to deliver mind-blowing vibrations and sensations straight to your erogenous zone. 

With a unique take on the couples’ vibrator design, this toy is a hands-free clitoral stimulator meant to please both parties to the max. Its flexible wings get tucked under the labia while the base stimulates the clitoral area. This strap-free, non-intrusive vibrator is made of the smoothest silicone and is 100% waterproof for play anytime, anywhere. 

Price: $135.00

Prostate Massagers

Blue and gold prostate massager from Lelo
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1) The best prostate massager: Lelo Hugo

The cream of the prostate crop comes to you by way of the luxury sex toy brand Lelo. This prostate massager is great for use with a partner and is built for ultimate pleasure. Thanks to its remote control programming, hands-free has never felt better. 

Designed with two motors, the Hugo is perfect for bigger, better, and even orgasms. As well as being remote-controlled, the Hugo is also motion-controlled, for ultimate pressure in all the right places. The medium size ensures that both beginners and experienced prostate toy users will enjoy every use. 

The Hugo is 100% waterproof, rechargeable, and body-safe. It comes in three colors and carries a one year warranty and a ten-year quality guarantee. 

Price: $200.00

we vibe vector in blue
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2) The best adjustable prostate massager: We-Vibe Vector

The Vector from We-Vibe is a great all-around choice for your first, or next, prostate massager. This adjustable toy sends powerful vibrations to your prostate and perineum with precision. The vibrating length that hits the perineum is perfect for your partner’s pleasure as well. 

Designed for comfort and total pleasure, the Vector adjusts perfectly to the user’s body, as well as their partner’s pleasure points. Made with body-safe silicone, the Vector is whisper-quiet, rechargeable, waterproof, and able to be remotely controlled.  Easily switch from vibration patterns in the moment with the four-button remote or we-vibe app.

Price: $162.29 

Sensuva natrualw ater based lube

3) The best lube for helping your prostate massager along: Sensuva Natural Water-Based Personal Lubricant 

Sensuva has knocked it out of the park with its many lines of personalized lubricants. Its Natural Water-Based lube has been made especially for intimate individuals or couples looking to choose a healthy and natural option. 

As per the site, Sensuva says that each of its healthy formulas includes a combination of natural, organic, food-grade, eco-cert, and EU-Certified ingredients. As well, they’re all glycerin and paraben-free, and pH-Balanced for a woman’s body.

This package mentions penile, anal, and vaginal application. While all lube should be taking the woman into consideration, it’s important to remember that both the penis and the anus are not self-lubricating. There are huge audiences missing out on many companies’ marketing strategies.

Sensuva has really shown up and out for the couples and individuals looking for clean pleasure. As for it’s standard Natural Water-Based lube, Sensuva has really mastered it. The art of producing a lube that mimics the natural lubrication produced on one’s own has been matched with a great scent! 

Price: $12.00

Bullet Vibrators 

Lelo Lyla 2 bullet vibrator
Lelo

1) The best bullet vibrator: Lelo Lyla 2

This bullet vibrator by Lelo will be a game-changer for both you and your partner. If you’re looking to ignite passion and create longing, this might be the best way to go. The Lyla 2 is a small remote-controlled vibrator that offers you secrecy, pleasure, and excitement wherever you may go. 

This vibrator is the perfect size to slip inside and let go of all responsibility. Hand your partner the reins and get in the mood for something a little naughty. Take the Lyla 2 out on the town during date night, or for an intimate setting at home. 

This bullet vibrator has three times greater the range than other wireless massagers and near-silent vibrations. Paired with a rechargeable battery, waterproof features, and eight intense vibration settings, the Lyla 2 is sure to shake up your life. 

Price: $135.15 

Remote control ohmibod esca 2
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2) The best bullet vibrator for long distance fun: OhMiBod Esca 2

The OhMiBod Esca 2 is your long-distance dream come true. If you’ve been separated from your partner recently, this is the solution. If you’re starting to feel the distance, this remote-controlled vibrator will close it in no time. 

This vibrator has the ability to be controlled from anywhere in the world. Its Bluetooth and app-enabled capabilities are second to none, and its extras justify the price point. With a rechargeable battery, three vibration patterns, five vibration levels, and a five-inch insertable length, the Esca 2 will be your new best friend until your real one returns. 

Price: $152.89

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*First Published: Nov 4, 2021, 1:05 pm CDT