Online dating sites may be good for simple hookups, but if you’re into the kinkier stuff, you’ll want to acquaint yourself with the fetish dating sites.
As opposed to broad and vanilla matchmaking services, a dedicated fetish dating app like FetLife is only for those involved in the world of kink. Niche dating sites increase the chances of finding serious play partners looking to explore the same proclivities–much more so than if you rely on a traditional fling site. Why? Because users are encouraged to blog on forums, chat with other members, and even attend local munches in an effort to build their own kink-friendly community.
To find the best fetish dating sites for you, continue reading for our site-by-site breakdown.
The best fetish dating sites
Perversions.com is a hidden gem among the fetish dating community. Neatly designed, the site is easy to use and makes searching for potential matches hassle-free, and reviewers claim this is what leads to the site’s high matchmaking rate. Perversions.com also offers users access to private cam rooms, chat rooms, community blogs, and more. Signing up is free, but to access everything the site has to offer you’ll need to upgrade your membership to a Silver or Gold plan.
Silver members can view and contact members, show up in searches (after Gold tier members and before free members), contact new members, unlimited access to live and recorded videos and 24/7 phone support.
Gold members will have access to all new content first, appear in search results before Silver and free members, receive full access to the Gold Room (which includes erotic photos, movies, downloadable videos, erotic stories, and live webcam shows).
Whether you’re looking for a long-term playmate or just a kinky date, ALT.com will support your mission. This particular fetish dating website specializes in connecting masters or mistresses of BDSM and erotic bondage with potential partners. Members are able to connect with other users in chat rooms, webcam sessions, and through private messaging. Joining is free, but if you want to access everything the site has to offer you will need to upgrade your membership to a Silver or Gold plan.
Silver members can view and contact members, show up in searches (after Gold tier members and before free members), contact new members, access members photos and video introductions, and 24/7 phone support.
Gold members will have access to all new content first, appear in search results before Silver and free members, receive unlimited access to members photos and screen names, movies, downloadable videos, erotic stories, blogs, groups, magazine stories, and live webcam shows.
FetishDateLink.com is one of the best fetish dating sites for people who have a lot of kinks. Not only is the site’s membership base fairly large, but it allows paid users to search for potential matches by keyword, personality, and distance (among other detailed search options).
Signing up is free, but if you want to see more than a photo and bio in your search results (or just search more specifically) you’ll have to upgrade your membership to the Unlimited plan.
Known as the social network for BDSM, FetLife is your place to go to not only find hot dates, but information on local munches and ways connect with other members of the kink community.
Most of FetLife’s content is available with a free membership, but if you’d like to see things like videos, then you’ll need to upgrade.
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With nearly a million active members, SubsAndMasters.com is constantly updated with new fetish personals, adult photos, and videos. The site also allows users to blog, chat, and e-mail other members. Joining is free, but if you want to access everything the site has to offer you’ll need to upgrade your membership to a Silver or Gold plan.
Silver members can view and contact all members, show up in search results before nonpaid members, and access erotic photos and videos.
Gold members get all the benefits of silver membership plus priority stacking in search results and listings, advanced search capabilities, and the ability to access cupid emails.
Similar to FetLife, Fester grants members access to information regarding upcoming Fet events and local munches. This fetish dating website also highlights the importance of education within in the scene, offering members access to a community blog, education forums, and more. Other features include unlimited messaging, friending, favorites, sending and receiving gifts, photo and video sharing, and confessions.
Unlike many other fetish dating sites, Fetster.com is 100% free to use.
When signing up for AltDatingClub, users are prompted to disclose what they’re looking for (couples to be dominated or looking to dominate, single submissives, etc.). This extra step makes navigating matches and member pages painless since each profile clearly displays what the user is looking for.
Joining is free, but standard members will only be able to view one live cam at a time, join groups, explore blogs, and hotlist others. Standard members also won’t be able to access advanced search, read or reply to messages, comment on photos and videos, view full-length videos, view complete profiles or send friend/flirt requests. So, you know what I’m going to say: if you wanna see it all, you’ve got to upgrade to a Silver or Gold plan.
Silver members get all the same perks as free (standard) members, but they can also view full profiles, contact members, access members’ live and recorded videos, receive more detailed cupid reports and select magazine features.
Gold members unlock all the same things as Silver members and also get priority profile listing (so you show up first in search results), full access to magazines, videos, webcams, and extra-large photos.
Silver and Gold members also have the option to sign up for the Standard Add-on package (starting at $8.95/month) which allows standard (free) members to contact you without having to switch over to a paid profile.
Interested in heels worship, nylon, pantyhose or have a foot fetish? Heels Dating is the fetish dating app for you. Users can choose to remain anonymous in matches’ Little Black Book or disclose more than just their screen name, as well as upload photos and videos in private and/or public albums. New members will automatically receive 30 free flirts (which is similar to sending a Super Like on Tinder).
Free members will be able to create a profile, upload photos, search for other singles in your area, and receive IM’s from other singles. But if you want to send flirts or access the rest of the site’s content, you’ll need to upgrade your membership to paid.
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Featuring everything strap-on related and more, StraponDating.com is the prime fetish dating site for all your pegging needs. Getting started is simple, too. Just sign up, fill out your profile, and start your search in live chat rooms or by browsing the profiles closest to you. To nudge you in the right direction, new members will automatically receive 40 free flirts upon signing up.
Joining is free, but if you want to access everything the site has to offer you’ll need to upgrade your membership to a Premium membership.
- 5-day trial: $4.99
- 1-month Premium membership: $27.99/month
- 3-month Premium membership: $13.33/month
- 12-month Premium membership: $6.99/month
Using contact preferences, FindSpankingPartners.com carefully filters users who match your custom requirements to message and interact with you. The site requires you to fill out a public profile that includes one public photo (with the option to add a private album), your city, age, and a brief summary. Some key features include group chats, instant messaging, private chat rooms, and status updates.
Signing up is free but to enjoy all the site has to offer, you’ll need to upgrade your account to a paid membership.
If you can’t get enough of foot play, FootFetishDating.com is the fetish dating website of your dreams. Once you’re signed up, you can browse profiles of men, women, and couples who are also interested in giving and/or receiving foot massages, tickles, kisses, and other forms of worship.
Free members will be able to create a profile, upload photos, search for matches, and receive messages from other singles. But if you want to access the entirety of the site’s content, you’ll need to upgrade your membership to paid.
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