Believe it or not, you probably know already.
Kurt Metzger admitted on Facebook that he "criminally" choked his ex-girlfriend. Why does he have a job writing for Inside Amy Schumer?
The crux of this issue is not banning certain jokes or policing thoughts. If you are going to tell a joke about rape, advance the conversation.
Dating can get everyone down. Here's a few links that'll have you remembering the humor in it all.