Silver medalist He Zi's boyfriend proposes after her medal ceremony

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But the moment has sparked debate.

Chinese diver He Zi won silver in the women’s 3-meter springboard Sunday at the Olympics, and added to the two medals she won in London. But her medal ceremony included an additional dive even she didn’t expect.

Zi stood on the podium with China’s Shi Tingmao and Italy’s Tania Cagnotto, who won gold and bronze, respectively, during the ceremony. But moments after the ceremony ended, her boyfriend Qin Kai, a fellow Chinese diver who won the bronze in the men’s synchronized 3-meter springboard earlier in Rio, came out with a glass case containing a red rose—and a ring. After recovering from shock, He gave the audience a thumb’s up.

It’s not the first Olympic public proposal: Just last week, Brazilian rugby player Isadora Cerullo received a proposal from her girlfriend Marjorie Enya (a manager at Deodoro Stadium) after Cerullo competed in the first women’s rugby sevens, a match Brazil lost. For many fans, it was a heartwarming moment.

And while some people saw the proposal as as the icing on the cake, others were rubbed the wrong way about Qin’s proposal and felt that he took Zi’s big moment and made it all about himself, as well as the pressures that come with public and viral proposals.

For what it’s worth, Zi, who has dated Qin for six years, is thrilled—although she "didn't expect that I would marry myself out so early."

"He said a lot of things there at the podium,” Zi said. “He made a lot of promises, but the thing that has touched me the most is that I think this is the guy I can trust for the rest of my life."

Gentlemen, please cease and desist with the meme-ready marriage proposals
I am not a romantic. I loathe The Notebook, consider flowers a waste of space, and my Valentine’s Day tradition with my boyfriend is streaming Holocaust documentaries on Netflix (shout out to Hitler’s Children, whut!). I also don’t come from romantic stock: According to family lore, my father proposed to my mother during halftime of a Jets game by turning to her and saying, “The ring is upstairs on the dresser if you want it.”
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