Amber Tamblyn

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Because grabbing a woman by the p***y isn't a euphemism—it's a real, criminal thing.

Warning: The following post contains graphic details of sexual assault. 

In response to Donald Trump's "grab them by the pussy" comments, actor and writer Amber Tamblyn took to Instagram on Sunday to detail a horrific incident in which an ex sexually assaulted her. 

In the post, she describes how her ex-boyfriend came up to her in a crowded club, her friends by her side, and attacked her.

He picked me up with one hand by my hair and with his other hand, he grabbed me under my skirt by my vagina— my pussy?— and lifted me up off the floor, literally, and carried me, like something he owned, like a piece of trash, out of the club. 

Tamblyn goes on to say that others eventually intervened, but the rest of the night is a blur, except for the physical damage he caused to her body.

"That part of my body," she writes, "which the current Presidential Nominee of the United States Donald Trump recently described as something he’d like to grab a woman by, was bruised from my ex-boyfriend's violence for at least the next week."

I need to tell you a story. With the love and support of my husband, I've decided to share it publicly. A very long time ago I ended a long emotionally and physically abusive relationship with a man I had been with for some time. One night I was at a show with a couple girlfriends in Hollywood, listening to a DJ we all loved. I knew there was a chance my ex could show up, but I felt protected with my girls around me. Without going into all the of the details, I will tell you that my ex did show up, and came up to me in the crowd. He's a big guy, taller than me. The minute he saw me, he picked me up with one hand by my hair and with his other hand, he grabbed me under my skirt by my vagina— my pussy?— and lifted me up off the floor, literally, and carried me, like something he owned, like a piece of trash, out of the club. His fingers were practically inside of me, his other hand wrapped tightly around my hair. I screamed and kicked and cried. He carried me this way, suspended by his hands, all the way across the room, pushing past people until he got to the front door. My friends ran after him, trying to stop him. We got to the front door and I thank God his brothers were also there and intervened. In the scuffle he grabbed at my clothes, trying to hold onto me, screaming at me, and inadvertently ripped off my grandmother’s necklace, which I was wearing. The rest of this night is a blur I do not remember. How I got out to the car. How I got away from him that night. I never returned for my necklace either. That part of my body, which the current Presidential Nominee of the United States Donald Trump recently described as something he’d like to grab a woman by, was bruised from my ex-boyfriend's violence for at least the next week. I had a hard time wearing jeans. I couldn’t sleep without a pillow between my legs to create space. To this day I remember that moment. I remember the shame. I am afraid my mom will read this post. I'm even more afraid that my father could ever know this story. That it would break his heart. I couldn't take that. But you understand, don't you? I needed to tell a story. Enjoy the debates tonight.

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Many online are praising Tamblyn for telling her story—one that is unfortunately not uncommon in her assailant's intent and damage. And yet there are others who thought the actor had come forward for attention or as a "spin piece for a magazine." 

Because as we've learned, people won't listen to a woman's—or dozens and dozens of women's claims—about a sexual predator until we catch him with a hot mic.

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